Hong Kong Morning Post | Netease Blizzard talks about the collapse of New Oriental online revenue surged 6 times

  [yesterday’s review]

  On January 17, Hong Kong stocks surged in early trading, but their stamina was insufficient. Bears launched a counterattack, and major indexes turned down one after another. The Hang Seng Index closed down 0.78% and the Hang Seng Technology Index fell 0.14%.

  Large-scale technology stocks fell, JD.COM, Baidu, Xiaomi, Netease and Meituan all fell, while Alibaba and Tencent rose nearly 1% against the trend; Biomedical stocks pulled back significantly, while gambling stocks and auto stocks generally fell.

  On the other hand, online education stocks, sporting goods stocks and semiconductor stocks are active.

  [capital flow]

  The net inflow of southbound funds yesterday was HK$ 4.288 billion. Simcere ranked first in net purchases, and China Construction Bank ranked first in net sales.

  In terms of short-selling data, Far East Hongxin, Meidong Automobile and Prudential ranked in the top three; Alibaba, Tencent Holdings and China Ping An ranked the top three in short selling amount.

  [breaking news]

  Talk about collapse completely! The negotiation between Blizzard and Netease broke down, and the national service game service was terminated on January 23rd.

  On January 17th, Blizzard China official Weibo announced that it contacted Netease again last week and sought assistance to discuss extending the existing agreement based on the agreed terms of Netease in 2019 for six months. However, Netease did not accept the proposal to postpone the existing game service agreement, so it will have to stop the national service game service on January 23 in accordance with Netease’s notice of stopping service.

  Blizzard China also mentioned the progress in finding new partners in the announcement. Blizzard said that it has held talks with a number of potential partners, and its preferred potential partners should be able to provide players with high-quality and stable game services and create a positive game environment inside and outside the game.

  Netease has previously announced that after the game server is closed, all game data such as account data and character data in each game will be sealed. Netease will properly handle game data in accordance with the requirements of laws and regulations to protect the legitimate rights and interests of users.

  Gorgeous turn! New Oriental’s live online delivery is quite effective, and its revenue has soared by 590% in half a year.

  After the Hong Kong stock market closed yesterday, New Oriental Online (to be renamed Oriental Selection) announced its results for the six months ended November 30, 2022 (that is, the first half of fiscal year 2023).

  The data shows that the revenue of New Oriental’s continuing business during the online period was 2.08 billion yuan, a year-on-year surge of 590.2%; Even if the income from terminated business in the same period of last year was 272 million yuan, there was a year-on-year growth rate of 262.7%.

  The gross profit of New Oriental during the online period was 982.5 million yuan, a year-on-year increase of 467.9%, and the gross profit rate was 47.2%. The net profit was 585.3 million yuan, compared with a loss of 108.7 million yuan from continuous operation in the same period of last year, which successfully turned losses into profits.

  New Oriental Online also disclosed for the first time the performance of Oriental Selection within six months:

  In the first half of fiscal year 2023, the total revenue of the self-operated products and live broadcast e-commerce division of the representatives selected by Dongfang was 1,765.8 million yuan, accounting for 84.9% of the total revenue of New Oriental Online, with a gross profit margin of 42.5%.

  The total transaction volume (GMV) of the business of Dongfang Selection Office reached 4.8 billion yuan, with 35.2 million followers in Tik Tok and 70.2 million orders paid in Tik Tok.

  More than 60 kinds of self-operated agricultural products have been selected by the East, bringing in more than 1 billion yuan in revenue. The orders for self-operated agricultural products plus orders for third-party products totaled 70.2 million.

  In 2023, the first batch of domestic online games were released! Tencent Netease’s heart is in the air.

  On the evening of January 17th, official website, the State Press and Publication Administration, announced the approval information of domestic online games in January 2023, and a total of 88 domestic online games were successfully registered. Tencent and Netease, the two major head game manufacturers, have gained something.

  Tencent was awarded the titles of Dream Star, Dawn Awakening: Vitality and Aurora at White Night respectively. Netease won a version number, and its survival shooting mobile game "Extraordinary Pioneer" appeared in this approval list.

  In addition, Netease’s MMORPG "Going Against the Water" was added to the mobile version, which means that its key product "Going Against the Water" was officially approved.

  In addition to the two major head game manufacturers, the games of Mihayou and Heartbeat Company also appeared in this approval list.

  Junshi Bio: COVID-19 oral medicine VV116 new drug application was accepted.

  Junshi Bio announced that its holding subsidiary, Shanghai Wangshi Biomedical Technology Co., Ltd., received the Notice of Acceptance approved and issued by the Food and Drug Administration, and the application for the listing of a new drug for treating novel coronavirus infection (hereinafter referred to as "COVID-19"), an oral nucleoside anti-novel coronavirus (SARSCoV-2) drug jointly developed by Juntuo Bio and Suzhou Wangshan Wangshui, was accepted.

  New energy car companies start another round of price war? Xpeng Motors announced a price cut.

  Driven by Tesla’s price reduction, some domestic new energy brands choose to follow suit, and the latest one to join the price war is Xpeng Motors.

  On January 17th, Xpeng Motors announced that the new New Year price system for G3i, P5 and P7 would be launched from 14: 00 on that day. The starting prices of the three models were 148,900, 156,900 and 209,900 respectively, with the biggest drop of 36,000 yuan.

  At the same time, Xpeng Motors said that the first car owner who ordered G3i/P5/P7 within one year before the announcement will also give back in the Spring Festival at the same time, including extending the vehicle warranty to 10 years/200,000 kilometers and giving four years of basic maintenance.

  Strong alliance! Contemporary Amperex Technology Co., Limited and Weilai signed a comprehensive strategic cooperation agreement

  On January 17th, () signed a five-year comprehensive strategic cooperation agreement with Weilai in Ningde.

  Officially, the signing of the comprehensive strategic cooperation agreement is another deepening and upgrading of the strategic cooperation relationship between the two sides, involving technical cooperation in new brands, new projects and new markets.

  It is understood that on the basis of giving full play to their respective resource advantages, the two sides will build an efficient and coordinated battery supply system based on advanced battery technology to enhance innovation capability and efficiency.

  Tencent’s withdrawal of the 15-storey office building of Netac Technology belongs to the normal adjustment of office buildings.

  A-share listed company () announced that Tencent intends to terminate the lease contract of Netac Building in advance.

  In response, Zhang Jun, the public relations director of Tencent, said that the rent withdrawal was a normal adjustment of office buildings.

  The major shareholder of Yaoming Bio plans to place 56 million shares and cash in HK$ 4 billion.

  Yaoming Bio announced on January 17th that its major shareholder, WuXi Biologics Holdings Limite, plans to place 56 million shares of the company at HK$ 71 per share, and cash out nearly HK$ 3.98 billion.

  According to the announcement, Morgan Stanley will act as the agent for this placement. If the placement is completed, the shareholding ratio of Biologics Holdings will be reduced from 15.14% to 13.82%.

  According to public information, behind Biologics Holdings is Li Ge, chairman of Yaoming Bio and founder of ().

  Xiaomo reduced its holdings of Vanke by about 1,658,400 shares and cashed in nearly HK$ 30 million.

  According to the latest data of the Hong Kong Stock Exchange, on January 11th, Xiaomo reduced its holdings of 1,658,392 H shares of Vanke, with a price of HK$ 170,095 each, and cashed in about HK$ 28,208,400.

  After the reduction, the latest shareholding of Xiaomo is about 114 million shares, and the latest shareholding ratio is 5.96%.

  At the same time, the auditor of Evergrande III listed platform will be replaced, and the meeting will sincerely succeed PricewaterhouseCoopers.

  On the evening of January 16th, China Evergrande, Evergrande Property and Evergrande Automobile announced at the same time that PricewaterhouseCoopers resigned as auditors at the suggestion of the above-mentioned companies, with effect from that day. To appoint Shanghui Baicheng Certified Public Accountants Limited as the new auditor, which is a member of Shanghui Certified Public Accountants (special general partnership) in Hong Kong.

  In his resignation letter, PricewaterhouseCoopers pointed out that it had not obtained the audit materials and evidence needed for the audit in 2021, including the fact that the deposit pledge guarantee of 13.4 billion yuan disclosed by Evergrande Property on July 22, 2022 was transferred by relevant banks.

  In addition, PricewaterhouseCoopers said that it is impossible to determine the scope of the audit work to be carried out in the future, and it is difficult to reasonably estimate the time required to complete the audit work in 2021. Therefore, Luo Bingxian agreed to resign as the auditor of the Company.

  Aauto Quicker CTO Chen Dingjia resigned and two senior vice presidents shared relevant responsibilities.

  Aauto Quicker announced that Chen Dingjia would resign as Chief Technology Officer (CTO) due to his intention to devote more time to his family and personal affairs, with effect from January 18th. In view of Chen Dingjia’s great contribution, after his resignation, he will be transferred to the company as a lifelong honorary consultant and continue to provide guidance and support for the company.

  The announcement shows that after Chen Dingjia resigned, two senior vice presidents in related fields will share the relevant management responsibilities of the previous CTO and report to CEO Cheng Yixiao.

  Hansen Pharmaceutical: Covid-19 oral small molecule 3CL protease inhibitor obtained notice of clinical trial.

  Hansen Pharmaceutical announced on the evening of January 17th that the first-class new drug "HS-10517 Tablet" against novel coronavirus oral 3CL protease inhibitor, which was jointly developed by the Group and Beijing Huayi Health Drug Research Center (also known as Global Health Drug R&D Center for short), has been approved and issued by China Food and Drug Administration, and it is intended to be used for the treatment of mild and moderate adult novel coronavirus infection patients.

  [financial data]

  1. () (02601.HK): In 2022, the accumulated original insurance business income of CPIC Life Insurance was 222.342 billion yuan, up 6.1% year-on-year; CPIC Property Insurance accumulated 170.824 billion yuan of original insurance business income, up 11.6% year-on-year.

  2. China Resources Power (00836.HK): In 2022, the cumulative electricity sales of affiliated power plants reached 185 million MWh, up 4.1% year-on-year. Among them, the cumulative electricity sales of affiliated wind farms reached 35.2555 million MWh, an increase of 10.4% year-on-year; The cumulative electricity sales of affiliated photovoltaic power stations reached 1,351,900 MWh, up 17.8% year-on-year.

  3. China Petrochemical Co., Ltd. (00386.HK): In 2022, the oil-gas equivalent output was about 489 million barrels, up by 1.94% year-on-year; The output of crude oil was about 280 million barrels, up by 0.39% year-on-year; Natural gas production was 1.25 trillion cubic feet, up 4.11% year-on-year.

  4. () (01186.HK): Recently, 12 major projects were awarded, with a total project amount of 103.295 billion yuan, accounting for 10.13% of the company’s audited operating income in 2021.

  5. CGNPC Nuclear Mining (01164.HK): In the fourth quarter, a total of 771.9tU of natural uranium was produced, with a planned completion rate of 94.3%.

  6. China Xinlianxin Chemical Fertilizer (01866): On January 16th, the second phase DMF project of Jiangxi Xinlianxin Chemical Industry Co., Ltd. was successfully put into production, and the DMF production capacity of the group increased to 200,000 tons/year.

  Jiangxi base has planned three phases of DMF project, of which the first, second and third phases are all DMF with an annual production capacity of 100,000 tons.

  7. Chizicheng Technology (09911): In 2022, the cumulative download volume of social services reached 481 million, up 5% year-on-year; The total revenue of the annual delivery business is estimated to be 540 million yuan to 2.57 billion yuan, a year-on-year increase of 20%; The average monthly activity of social business reached about 22.91 million, a year-on-year increase of about 20%. In addition, the total annual revenue of innovative business is expected to be 230-260 million yuan.

  The decline in revenue from the Group’s innovative business narrowed quarter by quarter, mainly due to the smooth progress of the boutique game business.

  8. Yongda Automobile (03669.HK): It is estimated that the net profit attributable to shareholders will decrease by no more than 43% in 2022, mainly due to the repeated COVID-19 epidemic during the reporting period, which affected sales.

  9. Chanyou Technology (02660.HK): It is estimated that the net profit attributable to shareholders in 2022 will increase by about 30% to 42% compared with that in 2021, mainly due to the group’s iterative product innovation and sustained and steady channel growth.

  10. Fenmei Packaging (00468.HK): It is estimated that the comprehensive profit will be 168-188 million yuan in 2022 and 285 million yuan in the same period in 2021. Mainly due to the pressure of profit margin brought by the rising cost of raw materials.

  [investment operation]

  1. () (00564.HK): Signed an asset management plan with Zhongtai Asset Management at a cost of 200 million yuan.

  2. Chunli Medical (01858.HK): entered into an agreement with Bank of Beijing to subscribe for 525 million yuan of structured deposit products.

  3. Kangxinuo Bio (06185.HK): purchased a structured deposit with a principal of 200 million yuan from Bohai Bank.

  4. Xinneng Low Carbon (00145.HK): We are negotiating with several potential strategic business partners in China and Europe on potential cooperation, and exploring business opportunities in Asia (including China) for energy-saving equipment and low-carbon service product supply, carbon sink resource development and management, and agricultural and forestry development.

  5. () (02196.HK): The drug registration of roxatidine acetate hydrochloride for injection was accepted by National Medical Products Administration, which is mainly used to treat upper gastrointestinal bleeding. According to the latest data of IQVIA CHPA, in 2021, the sales of roxatidine acetate hydrochloride for injection in China was about RMB 1.44 billion.

  6. Fosun Pharma (02196): FCN-016 eye drops have been approved by the clinical trial of drugs. This new drug is an innovative small-molecule chemical drug independently developed by the Group, which is a Rho kinase (Rock) inhibitor, and is intended to be mainly used to reduce the intraocular pressure of patients with open-angle glaucoma or ocular hypertension.

  7. Fudan Zhangjiang (01349.HK): The FDA022 antibody coupling agent for injection developed by the company was used in the phase I clinical study of drugs for the treatment of advanced solid tumors, and the first subject was successfully enrolled recently. This drug is the first new generation ADC drug on BB05 platform, and it is intended to be used to treat advanced solid tumors with positive HER2 expression, such as breast cancer, gastric cancer, lung cancer and colorectal cancer.

  8. Fuhong Hanlin (02696.HK): National Medical Products Administration approved the application for listing and registration of Hans-like combination carboplatin and etoposide as new indications for first-line treatment of extensive small cell lung cancer.

  [Repurchase cancellation]

  1. Tencent Holdings (00700.HK): It spent HK$ 351 million to buy back 950,000 shares at a repurchase price of HK$ 366.2-375.4.

  2. AIA (01299.HK): It spent about HK$ 225 million to buy back 2,608,600 shares at a price of HK$ 85.4-87.3.

  3. Zhongjiao Holdings (00839.HK): 147 million shares were issued on January 17th at an issue price of HK$ 10.94 per share.

You haven’t watched this game yet, they have got the best result of China team in the Olympic Games.

Wen | Yang Weige

Rugby is not popular in China, and there are not many fans, so the rugby match in the Olympic Games has not attracted much attention from domestic audiences.
However, this project you haven’t seen yet,China rugby girls have finished seventh in the women’s rugby sevens in the 2020 Tokyo Olympic Games, winning China’s best performance in this Olympic event and creating the highest ranking of Asian women’s rugby teams in the Olympic Games.
As the first seven-a-side China rugby women’s team to enter the Olympic Games, their breakthrough has been recorded in the history of sports in China.
Two rugby girls are from Shanghai.
Liu Xiaoqian and Gu Yaoyao are both from Shanghai Institute of Physical Education.
Liu xiaoqian
In July, 2007, 11-year-old Liu Xiaoqian was selected by the teacher and entered the track and field training point of Ma Yinchu junior middle school, and began to carry out systematic basic track and field training. Won the first place in women’s 100 meters in provincial and municipal track and field competitions for many times.,Liu Xiaoqian’s talent in speed, strength and agility in the competition was favored by the coach of the women’s football team. After many times of communication, she joined the China women’s football reserve echelon.
In 2012, Liu Xiaoqian joined the Shanghai Rugby Team. She won the second place in the Asian Youth Championship and the Asian Rugby Championship on behalf of the China team. After less than two years of rugby training, she won the athlete level. In September, 2018, in the women’s rugby sevens final of the 18th Asian Games, China won a precious silver medal, and Liu Xiaoqian participated as the main force.
In 2019, during the training before the Asian rugby sevens qualifiers of the Tokyo Olympic Games,Liu Xiaoqian suffered many serious injuries and underwent many operations. In the end, she overcame the injury with tenacious perseverance and high self-disciplineAnd break throughSelf, as the main player, won the laurel and qualified for the Olympic Games.
The training of rugby events is very hard, with fierce collision and wind and sun. Liu Xiaoqian once said: "Since you chose it at the beginning, you must persist. You know the hardships of training, as long as you get used to it!"
Gu Yaoyao
Gu Yaoyao showed great athletic talent since she was a child. In 2009, she won the championship of women’s triple jump in city and county sports games. In 2011, with the recommendation of her coach, Gu Yaoyao came to the competitive school affiliated to Shanghai Institute of Physical Education and joined the school’s women’s football team. With her athletic talent and hard training, Gu Yaoyao’s technical level finally improved by leaps and bounds, and she was successfully selected for the national women’s football team in 2015.
As the captain of the Shanghai Women’s Rugby Team and the main player of the National Women’s Rugby Team, Gu Yaoyao won the fourth place in the women’s rugby competition in the 13th National Games in 2017, the ninth place in the Dubai World Rugby Series in 2018 and the second place in the Asian series in 2019.
Gu Yaoyao, who plays with the national team all the year round, doesn’t have all kinds of holidays like other students. She trains with the team every winter and summer vacation and on weekends. Talking about training, Gu Yaoyao once bluntly said: "Every training is very tired, and clothes are always soaked with sweat."
All graduate students.Excellent cultural achievements.
On August 4th, the author interviewed Xu Hui, the head coach of Shanghai rugby team, Wu Jianhong, the assistant coach, and their school sisters in Shanghai Institute of Physical Education. Listen to them talk about the training routine of Olympic athletes.
From left to right: head coach Xu Hui, assistant coach Wu Jianhong, junior sister Xiaochen and Zheng Wenyan Photography: Wang Fei.
Liu Xiaoqian and Gu Yaoyao have been in the national team for many years and have rich experience. The head coach Xu Hui is very proud to be able to play for the country in the Olympic Games. He believes that the two players have their own specialties, and Gu Yaoyao has strong organizational mobilization ability and excellent defense, which can create scoring opportunities for everyone. Liu Xiaoqian is mainly aggressive and easy to score.
Xu Dao said that he also communicated with two athletes after the game, and Gu Yaoyao was in good shape. Liu Xiaoqian was not able to play the last game for the national team because of her elbow injury during the war with the United States. She was aggrieved and was actively receiving treatment and trying to adjust her mentality. After the Olympic Games, they are preparing for the war in isolation in Tianjin, and then the national team will join forces to compete in the Xi ‘an National Games.
Talking about the impression of the two players when they entered the school, Xu Dao said that Gu Yaoyao was originally engaged in long jump track and field events, and Liu Xiaoqian also practiced track and field. They have been working hard since they joined the Shanghai rugby team. In particular, Liu Xiaoqian impressed him very deeply. In preparation for the international competition, Liu Xiaoqian was injured from knee to shoulder to elbow. So far, four operations have been performed. Pain is a test for athletes’ physical and psychological state. However, Liu Xiaoqian overcame physical pain and difficulties every time, and quickly returned to the stadium to continue training every time.
Rugby training ground
Asked if there is any good way to avoid injury, Xu Dao said:Competitive sports must go beyond the limits of human beings, so as to live up to the Olympic spirit of "higher, faster, stronger and more United".They also constantly teach players some skills and means in training, hoping to avoid injuries as much as possible.
Xu Hui, head coach of the Shanghai rugby team, and Wu Jianhong, assistant coach
Wu Jianhong, an assistant coach, accompanied the football team for training before they rushed to Tokyo. He is the unsung hero behind the Olympic athletes. Asked if the training of rugby is bitter, she said: She has been practicing rugby for ten years, and the longer she has been in contact with it, the more she likes it.
Talking about the two athletes, Wu Jianhong said: "Liu Xiaoqian has experienced many setbacks and has great courage. This spirit is worth learning. She is a very strong and dedicated girl. On the day before a shoulder surgery, she still insisted on training and came step by step to overcome difficulties in the process of injury. " Speaking of this, coach Wu’s voice has choked.
Speaking of the characteristics of the players of the Shanghai rugby team, Xu Dao particularly pointed out the combination of study and practice.
"Gu Yaoyao and Liu Xiaoqian have excellent cultural achievements and have always been an example for the younger generation to learn. They are graduate students in 2018 and 2019 respectively. Gu Yaoyao has obtained the teacher qualification certificate, and Liu Xiaoqian has been practicing oral English and improving her English. As a student athlete, learning is for more scientific training, and a deeper summary can be made after training. "
Xu Dao said that in addition to regular daily training, young players will be organized to watch every game during the Olympic Games to cheer for the national team and the teachers and sisters. Young players are growing up in competition and exercise. I believe that I will be able to make a name for myself in various competitions soon.
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At the end of National Highway 318: the reunion dinner for guardians and builders.

China Tibet Net News February 11th is the 30th day of the twelfth lunar month (New Year’s Eve), which is also the 30th day of the Tibetan calendar. At the end of National Highway 318, two people with different identities have spent a different year together.
It is reported that the workers who built National Highway 318 at Zhangmu Port in nyalam county, Shigatse City, Tibet Autonomous Region actively responded to the call of the country to celebrate the New Year on the spot and decided to celebrate the New Year at Zhangmu Port. After learning this news, the police at Nyalam Entry-Exit Frontier Inspection Station offered them Chinese New Year materials and invited them to celebrate the New Year together.
The picture shows the police at Nyalam Entry-Exit Frontier Inspection Station preparing Spring Festival pendants for the construction workers of National Highway 318 at Zhangmu Port.
The picture shows the police at Nyalam Entry-Exit Frontier Inspection Station sending Spring Festival pendants to the construction workers of National Highway 318 at Zhangmu Port.
The picture shows the police at Nyalam Entry-Exit Frontier Inspection Station and the construction workers of National Highway 318 at Zhangmu Port posting Spring Festival couplets together.
"This is the happiest New Year we have spent in Tibet. The police at the border checkpoint are like our neighbors. We feel the taste of home in their big family." The construction workers of National Highway 318 at Zhangmu Port told reporters.
The picture shows that on the New Year’s Eve of February 11th, the police at Nyalam Entry-Exit Frontier Inspection Station invited the construction workers of National Highway 318 at Zhangmu Port to celebrate the New Year together.
The picture shows that on the New Year’s Eve of February 11th, the police at Nyalam Entry-Exit Frontier Inspection Station had a reunion dinner with the construction workers of National Highway 318 at Zhangmu Port.
The picture shows the police at Nyalam entry-exit frontier inspection station playing games with the construction workers of National Highway 318 at Zhangmu Port at the reunion dinner.
The picture shows that after a short gathering, the police at Nyalam entry-exit frontier inspection station waved goodbye to the construction workers of National Highway 318 at Zhangmu Port.
One is the guardian of the sacred land, and the other is the builder of a happy home. They are all using their own practical actions to write a touching patriotic chapter in this lonely border town, and jointly contribute silently to the construction of Zhangmu Port. (China Tibet Network Correspondent/ho yuhang)
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Why are more and more women "returning to the family"? The fundamental reason is that the social status is too low.

Cultivate the most interesting and practical psychology every day.

Because I hope children can enter a good university.

So we should study well in middle school.

Then try to get into a good middle school.

Then you must go to a good primary school.

There must be a good affiliated kindergarten next to a good primary school.

If you want to enter a good affiliated kindergarten

Then you have to go to a good nursery

If you want to enter a good nursery, you must arrange your own egg schedule.

To arrange the egg schedule, you must arrange your own life.

You can’t go to work day and night. The best job is to be stable from nine to five.

So as to win in the womb.

The above is the text record of interviewing young mothers in the documentary "No Starting Line". The life, work and mental journey of young mothers are evident.

This generation has lived in such a social environment. Although the material life has been greatly enriched, in fact, it has become more and more nervous, cautious and cautious psychologically.

Because I know the wonderful world and the distinction between people, I have a very high standard in my heart. Even if I am just an ordinary person in an ordinary family, it will not hinder my dream of being a noble family.

However, not everyone has the talent and opportunity to be elon musk, and not everyone has a mother like elon musk.

Needless to say, even if you have a smart and tough mother like elon musk, can you also have an engineer father like elon musk?

Obviously, we are talking about family background, genetic factors, and by the way, how the social environment affects a person’s success.

Looking back, why is it that mom talks about these issues and rarely sees dad thinking conveniently here?

It’s not that fathers don’t consider it. It’s mainly that children are born to women, and women take it for granted. Since you want to raise it, it is natural to plan it from head to toe by yourself.

In this way, it is a standard for an ordinary girl to get married and have children after working for one or two years after graduating from college and resign to take care of her children at home.

Men just need to go to work to earn money and come back. The elderly, children and women at home shoulder the burden of housework-if you don’t work, you should be a full-time housewife to take care of your family.

Otherwise, why should I give you living expenses every month? Who doesn’t want to stay at home? Who wants to go out drinking and socializing? I play games and kick a ball. What’s wrong? When a girl falls into the circle of marriage and childbirth, men take it for granted to live their own free and unfettered lives.

The reason is: as the head of the family who takes money home every month, it is more important than women-who told me to work hard!

80% of women have received such mental PUA, and they are totally dependent on men economically.

If your parents can help you, it will be a great happy event, because it not only means that you can be fully prepared during pregnancy, but also means that your parents can help you and make plans for yourself. For example, after giving birth, we will take care of it for you, and you can continue to go to work. Although you don’t have much money, it is an income after all. If you have a way out, you won’t be angry with the man and your husband’s family.

With such helpful parents, a woman can at least stay relaxed and happy mentally, have more sources of income economically, and have a better chance of making great progress in her work.

Only when a woman is economically independent, cheerful and has a strong working ability can the emotional relationship between women and men be guaranteed in quality, and the family relationship be more harmonious, and the children will have a better growth environment, both mentally and materially.

Because, fundamentally speaking, men are more rational and value the role of one thing and one person in society and family.

If a woman has been living on her own for a long time, and because she has no money to save money, she has been living a very poor life and then becomes a yellow-faced woman, then this woman has almost no place in a man’s heart, and even becomes a psychological burden.

Although women have to resign from home because of having children and raising children, it is men’s jobs that are sacrificed for preservation, but few people can get this feeling. What people see is nothing but women’s idleness, laziness, bloated and trivial conversation. Then despise all aspects of her and question her existence value …


When more and more women choose to return to their families and take care of their children, and when the whole society’s doubts about stay-at-home mothers reach the peak, what we think more about is not whether women give up on themselves, but the lack of system design at the level of national and social system design.

Women have no corresponding social logistics support after giving birth, so they have to rely on men. This forces men to work better to bear the heavy responsibility of making money to support their families.

At the same time, the cost of raising children, which should be borne by the society and the state, now falls entirely on the heads of individual families. No one has ever questioned why childbearing is advocated without any social security after childbirth.

Individuals almost have to sacrifice the opportunity and time of a lifetime in exchange for the smooth birth, growth and success of a descendant.

As the pillars, men can’t return to their families, because they must be busy creating greater wealth for the society and the family, and promoting the progress and operation of the whole society.

Since ancient times, women have shouldered the heavy responsibility of reproducing and raising offspring. No matter how the times change, such historical responsibility has never been abandoned.

deep-rootedDedication and self-sacrifice, like a rope tied to every girl and woman. Even in statistics, women in China have the highest participation index among women in the world, which cannot change the trend and fact that women in China have to return to their families to become full-time mothers for their children.

This situation is also the most painful for President Zhang Guimei.

Training a girl to go to college is not to let her return to her family to be a full-time wife, but to let an independent person live a better life with the strength given to her by knowledge and have more social value.

Although President Zhang Guimei’s words were very rough, he got to a fundamental problem:

What kind of life and life does a person have to live once and come to the world once? Is it really the only way for women who return to their families after giving birth? Is this life really as worthwhile as you say?

Does this kind of life reduce the grandeur of life to a small node and forget the mission of exploring the deeper integration of self and society?

– The End –

Author | Magic Little

A group of young people who like to look up at the stars

References: Wells, A. (2019). Breaking the cybercode: understanding and treating the human metacognitive control system to enhance mental health. Frontiers in Psychology, 10,2621.

Wechat WeChat official account: the first psychology

Encouraging women to be "independent" is also a kind of violence.

Unexpectedly, today we met a guest who was lying flat.

I have always encouraged more women to move forward boldly, hoping to record the precious "step forward" taken by those professional women, so as to inspire more ordinary you and me and pick up the courage to move forward.

As the book "Step Forward" says:

Women are not without leadership, but afraid to let go of their dreams. As long as they boldly sit at the table,Participation can bring about change.

But this time, our guest Zhang Chun said that the word "step forward" made her have to be alert-

Is it wrong for a woman to stand still, lie down and cry, and not take a step forward?

Is there only one way for women to move forward?

This is an opportunity for us to collide.

Who is Zhang Chun?

Maybe many people know her because of an advertisement.

She talked about the "double bondage" of secular views on women:

You should have a career, but not too much;

You want to be beautiful, but loving beauty too much is vanity.

It seems that everything women do is wrong.

Source: Polaiya

She is a writer and a psychological counselor, and this kind of gender observation comes from her work.

Because the ratio of male to female visitors is about 1:9, a vivid sample of women shows her that there is a kind of depression called "Female depression”。

Walking as a woman for 40 years, her own experience made her realize a truth:

Men and women do not live in the same world."

I’m curious, in the wave of encouraging women to go up, why did she loudly say "women can stand still and cry while lying down"? What kind of female world does she see?

Based on this, I had a two-hour conversation with Zhang Chun.

I hope this article today can give you a new perspective and a healing massage.

The following is Zhang Chun’s self-report.

Two gender situations

Step forward?

Now that I hear this, all my alarm bells ring.

Everyone is telling women to move forward, to succeed, to stand up, to become professional women … to stand up, does that mean that it is wrong to sit, squat and lie down?

Any suggestion contains a hidden word, which is "should".

"You should …" We’ve heard so many words.

But I think, instead of telling women "how to make progress", telling women "You have the right to make any choice."The voice is even rarer.

But we need such a voice, instead of finding fault with women again.

Source: TV series "Big and Small Lies"

I am 40 years old this year, and I may have experienced a proposition for the first 38 years of my life:

What the hell am I suffering from?

How did this pain happen? How to describe and describe it? What do they have in common with women and what are their differences?

And why are men so different? How is his coolness cool? What’s his pain like? How is it different from mine?

These doubts come from what I see every day.

For example, if you see such a news-The 70-year-old woman picked up garbage in the middle of the night and was chopped many times. She died on the spot.

What will I notice?

I will notice that this is a woman, a woman who was killed outside in the middle of the night. I can’t help but substitute myself and I will be afraid.

But if the news describes it this way—The man committed a crime at 3 am and was arrested and brought to justice in less than an hour.

The subject changed from a murdered woman to a punished man. I don’t immediately feel "I’m in danger", but I know that criminals will pay the price.

But the news you usually see is almost always the former narrative.

Source: Network

I can’t name the specific news that scared me, but when a woman grew up seeing such news subjects and narratives, she naturally knew:

The world is dangerous, I have to be careful, be careful.

This is women’s daily life, and many women have been looking for an effective strategy to protect themselves in such a threatening atmosphere all their lives.

We are afraid that the courier will see that there is no man at home. Girls who live alone should hang some men’s clothes on the balcony and put a pair of men’s slippers at the door … These self-protection skills are being learned by girls since childhood.

According to my observation, all women have the ability to automatically distinguish "what I do to make others comfortable and what I do to make others uncomfortable".

They will automatically know what they can do to be safer and not put themselves in danger.

Source: TV series "Big and Small Lies"

Maybe you always think that you live in the same world as men, but this is not the case.

The world of women and men has its own narrative. The huge difference in logic determines that what women and men see is an absolutely different world.

The narrative of the female world is: I can’t do anything until I am allowed, and it is repeatedly and explicitly allowed.

The male narrative is: I can do anything until I am stopped, and it is repeatedly stopped until I pay an unbearable price.

A typical example is Wang Sicong’s bitter pursuit of Sun Yining.

Sun Yining has told Wang Sicong many times that he is not interested in him, doesn’t want to see him, and doesn’t want to be his girlfriend, but Wang Sicong seems completely inaudible.

It was not until Sun Yining exposed the chat record and tore her face that Wang Sicong realized that she was really boring to herself.

It’s not just "Wang Sicong". Most men around ordinary women are like this.

I met one on the Internet. I scold him and blacken him every day, but he can still find me again in various ways.

I said there was no possibility with him, but he said:

"I think we are very likely, because you don’t scold others, you only scold me like this. This is a preference, and you can’t have no feelings for me."

I’m really amazed.

Source: TV series "My Genius Girlfriend"

This is indeed the case in men’s world. It is all "I can" until the unbearable price is stopped.

Women are cautious, and they are all "I can’t" until they are explicitly allowed.

The difference between the two kinds of thinking fundamentally leads to two completely different gender situations-

You have your mountain, I have my disaster, and both men and women are trapped in their respective genders.

Twisted women

One day, I saw a poster on the wall of the hospital, which read:

"Pain relief is the basic right of patients."

This sentence triggered an earthquake in my heart, which made me feel so fresh.

I have been suffering from various chronic pain diseases, but I never thought that I could have the right to ask for no pain.

If pain relief is a basic right, can women’s menstrual pain be exempted?

If exempting dysmenorrhea is a basic right, then why do all women tolerate it as usual?

So that when it comes to dysmenorrhea, someone will say, "Drink more hot water and just bear it."

Why are there so many patients with dysmenorrhea, but there is no special treatment department?

Even why does it seem to many people that even childbirth, which is extremely painful to the mother, should be, must, can’t complain and don’t have to be exempted?

I suddenly realized that these are all violence, telling women that your feelings are not important.

There is more common physical violence, which is the humiliation of women’s body, appearance and sexual value.

"You shouldn’t be so fat."

"You should be whiter."

"If you want to wear this underwear, it will look fuller, and if you wear that one, it will look thinner and colder."

……

All these are telling women that your body doesn’t belong to you.

Although I began to consciously use the gender perspective in these three or five years, understanding the differences between the two sexes began when I knew I was a girl, and even then I didn’t necessarily have memories.

I believe other women are the same.

At the moment you were born, the doctor picked you up, patted your ass and said, "Wow, it’s a big fat son" or "it’s a little princess".

At that time, the response from all the people around you was already educating you about gender.

Some fathers saw that it was a girl and fainted on the spot; Some mothers immediately shed tears and said, "What a girl!".

Whether she is an expected child or not, girls can realize it subtly very early.

When they grow up, adults teach their children to know their own bodies. When they see the little boy, they will say:

"Look, this is your little ear, nose and mouth, this is your little hand and arm, and this is your little * * (private part), your calf and foot …"

But when teasing little girls, they will say:

"These are your little eyes and ears, your little arms, hands and navel, and your calves and feet …"

At that moment, the girl could not speak or read, but she knew that one part of her body was taboo.

What is more shameful than keeping a certain part of your body secret?

Source: TV series "My Genius Girlfriend"

This is the beginning of our understanding of our female identity, and it is also the beginning of our being concealed and bound.

Based on this, most of the female visitors I met had a kind of gender-specific depression, and I named it "female depression".

They came to me with the same question-"Should I not feel this way?"

Because the education they have experienced is telling them:

You don’t know how you feel.

You know how you feel, but you shouldn’t feel that way.

You can feel it, but you shouldn’t say it.

You have feelings, but your feelings are not important.

These all point to "you shouldn’t" can’t "and" don’t allow ",and all true feelings are erased.

For example, a woman who has been subjected to domestic violence is asking, "Is this my problem?" Before, they would ask: "Is it a domestic violence that I encountered?"

When feelings are blurred, women don’t know if they are hurt, which is very common in daily life.

Source: TV series "My Genius Girlfriend"

The little girl in kindergarten was pigtailed. She cried and she was sad, but the adults told her that "people like you". How can she tell the harm?

The normalized violence experienced by women is based on this.

From feeling physical violence, women are shaped from the inside out.

No one listens to what they say. They have to say a word 300 times, and they have to shout and smash things at the same time, so that someone will realize that women are speaking.

They are abused by domestic violence, and some people will say, "Did you annoy him?" "Just bear it with the family."

Women’s lives are "distorted" and they don’t know how to define their bodies and feelings, thus entering a kind of "spiritual collapse".

Some of them may seem to have a good life, but they will still fall into depression and be unhappy.

The real "step forward"

I heard a visitor say:

"I can’t see the model bloggers who know life, travel and do accounts. They are anxious at first sight. All their photos and videos are telling me that I am not living right."

Of course, I believe that there must be some women who will be inspired by these role models, so as to "step forward" and do something to make her feel better.

But at the same time, there must be others who feel disciplined, condemned and criticized by these shiny things, but they usually don’t make a sound.

Those voices that are active and make many changes are certainly good, and it has also formed a torrent.

It is also the true feelings and choices of some women that they cannot be pushed to take a step forward.

It’s just that there are too few voices encouraging women to tell their true feelings, and they are more asked.

But there is no end to meeting the requirements of the outside world.

Source: TV series "My Genius Girlfriend"

You can imagine a woman who has to deal with many people for a long time and accept the demands of voices from all directions, and these voices are bound to conflict.

Some people told her to be careful, while others told her to be bold.

This incident made her speak cautiously, and that project made her bold.

I think all girls should have heard a saying:You’d better be a civil servant, a doctor and a teacher. ……

This is the requirement of many people for her to be a "wife" in the future.

But on the other hand, women have been educated and gone to college, and they have seen many successful women live in various ways.

They say that a girl’s life is more than that. Don’t just try to be stable, but imagine more possibilities.

And today’s requirements for women are:

You should be a professional woman who takes a step forward and an all-round housewife; It is necessary to bear all responsibilities, but also to be emotionally stable and quiet.

There is a tear between the left and right everywhere.

Her self is shaking more and more in these tears, shaking to a certain extent, and it is broken.

The next step may be to become depressed.

That’s why I’m so wary of "step forward", of orders packaged as proposals, and of what should be hidden behind suggestions.

I don’t think it is necessary for women to live an independent, beautiful and successful life if they really take a step forward.

But you firmly believe that you are right no matter what you choose, you must have your reasons, and you have the right to go back on your word after you choose.

This "step forward" is a person’s subjectivity and interpretation right, and does not let liberation become a new bundle.

Source: TV series "My Genius Girlfriend"

There is violence, distortion and deception around us. I also have great anger at the world and want to do something that I think is right.

For example, when I saw a man urinating on the side of the road, I stopped him. Even when I did this for the first time, I was ready to fight, but after stopping him, it was really cool.

Of course, sometimes I just don’t want to get high. Today, I feel that I don’t love the world, and it’s not worth doing any construction here, so I choose to ruin it and do nothing.

The point is, I know I made the right choice.

Some time ago, there were several violent incidents against women. Like my visitors, I was inevitably angry and disappointed, as if I had been touched by all the traumatic experiences in the past.

During the most sad "beating incident", during the 20-minute break between each consultation, I would open the video of President Zhang Guimei’s examination submission for a while.

I saw her doing the same thing day after day, sending the girls out of the mountains, but the fate of the girls who took the college entrance examination was different.

Source: People’s Daily

But more often I will remind myself:I’m fine. I don’t have to be perfect.

As women, we are not destroyed by those cruel things, which is something we should be proud of forever.

There will never be a correct and successful answer to women’s way forward.

Remember, taking a step forward is to get back your rights, which is your choice and always right.

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