Reading at night | The higher a person’s emotional value, the higher his happiness.
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Reading at night | The higher a person’s emotional value, the higher his happiness.
05:39Client from Xinhua News Agency
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Anchor: Zhang Daxin
What is emotional value?
From a psychological point of view, emotional value refers to a person’s ability to influence others’ emotions.
The more comfortable, cheerful and stable a person can bring to others, the higher his emotional value;
A person always makes others feel awkward, angry and embarrassed, and his emotional value is lower.
Whether it is life or career, whether it is family or love, the higher the emotional value, the more unexpected happiness can be gained.
Emotional value is a preservative for intimate relationships.
In intimate relationships, whether a person can provide emotional value for his partner largely determines the success or failure of a relationship.
Two people in an intimate relationship will affect each other’s mood more or less.
People with high emotional value know how to be responsible for their own emotions and can also provide positive emotions to people around them.
People with low emotional value always want others to bear and relieve their bad emotions.
In all comfortable and long-term marriages, both parties must provide enough emotional value.
Emotional value is the adhesive of parent-child relationship.
Some people say that parents with high emotional value are more likely to raise optimistic and confident children.
Because parents’ emotional value is a kind of ability to have a long-term impact on their children’s lives.
However, emotional value is a scarce ability that many parents do not have.
Not good at praising and praising children, always denying with one mouth; Always grasp the bad things that children do, not the good side; I am used to looking at problems from the perspective of adults and have no empathy for children’s emotions; Often transfer their negative emotions to children …
So many children choose to close their inner world to their parents.
Many times, children’s first role models are their parents, including the methods of dealing with emotions and interpersonal relationships, which are actually learned from their parents.
To some extent, the bad behavior of children that most parents see is actually a reflection of their own bad behavior.
Therefore, in order to improve children’s emotional strength, parents must first manage their emotions.
Some people say: "Children are the receivers of parents’ emotions. When parents are uneasy, children will be alert immediately, and when parents relax, children will feel happy immediately."
Parents with high emotional value can not only control their emotions, but also ease their children’s emotions.
Emotional value determines a person’s interpersonal relationship.
Support others with emotional value, and learn to provide emotional value first, which can solve problems better than just reasoning.
In life, many people don’t know how to provide emotional value for others effectively and reasonably.
We should allow each other to have emotions. Allow people, things and things outside to fail to develop according to their own expectations.
Give each other a sense of identity.
We can give positive feedback according to our own understanding of the content and the relationship between the two sides. Paying attention to positive feedback can guide others to turn their attention to positive things.
Then provide constructive opinions instead of negative opinions to solve the problem.
Although high emotional value has a great positive effect on a person, at the same time, we should learn to avoid being excessively asked for emotional value.
Otherwise, it is easy to be regarded as an emotional trash can by others, constantly consuming their own psychological energy.
The real high emotional value is that you are emotionally stable and will not be influenced by others’ emotions.
The higher the emotional value, the higher the happiness.
Editor: Dong Linna
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